We need to acknowledge that there are at least three big topics / questions in your post.
First is the title question .. “how many of us…”
Next is what a forum like this will be able to help you a lot with, which is “what hack can i use granted that i’m not going to use a fixturing table?”
But the third is far more nuanced, far bigger picture, and perhaps therefore has far greater reach. And that’s whether we light duty fabricators should ever expect to get / use what’s in truth a quite extreme set of equipment. And then if we do want to make the extreme happen, how to work around to it.
In this social species with division of labour, we can’t have / learn / experience everything. The specialist automotive tuner will have equipment i’ll never get to use. The sushi chef will have a knife i can only dream of. The cult leader will spread his seed more. And the full time high end fabricator will have a full fixturing kit including a massive flat reference plane. I’m not saying i can never ever have one of those sushi knives. But if i want it from outside of my specialist world, i’m going to have to trade some aspect of my life. Maybe i’ll have to be a worse father. Or not breed. Or live in a job i hate over one i like because it pays more. The alchemists would say ‘equivalent exchange’.
This is all to say that, the way to a great fixturing solutoin might be very indirect. Rather than a hack to get as close as possible. It might be spending initial time doing something totally unrelated to fabrication that sets you up to earn more and then in the long term step into a full table setup. It might be investing in your buddy’s shop / business, having it grow as a consequence, and when it moves to bigger premises having your own corner of the shop because you’ve ‘somehow’ ‘magically’ become an integral component of their continued success. It might be becoming a fabricator and then the specialist equipment becomes an integrated component of your world. It might be studying psychopathy and soicial manipulation in order to manipulate a rich widow to marry you. It might be taking on greater risk and forgoing morals to steal from others. Whatever it is, if the frustration is not having the fixturing setup, and you are going to put resources into changing that (time is a resource), don’t forget the very round-about indirect way. And recognise that what resources you do spend into a partial solution won’t be available for the round-about approach any more. (you can’t take a night course in stock trading AND spend those nights drilling holes in a plate that will stand against your buddy’s shop wall most of the time.
If you want a fixturing solution that doesn’t act like a table (taking up large floor space, and i think could be put together yourself, then i still think that my approach proposed here in the topic ’ Could beams be a more generally useful fixturing fundamental?’ is sound. Un-tested. But theoretically sound.
If you’re mostly building small things, a fixture plate is possibly even better than a table.
If you’re mostly building big things there’s a whole parallel approach to fabrication-by-reference-plane, concentrating on measurement and bracing corners mostly. So you could still feed the fireball by buying squares and clamps. Propping the work on spacers. Building around a form. Etc.
Think outside teh box. For instance, if you already have some other form of table / work bench, this could be upgraded and be extreme overkill most of the time but come out as a fab table when needed. And this includes remembering that a fabrication reference doesn’t absolutely have to be made of metal. Especially if not being used much . I’ve built a fabrication bench top from particle board that really truly is accurate and strong. But then, it took a week; two years of taking scraps home from the built-in cupboard job’s dumpster; building a slab flattening rig for a router… Equivalent trade.